Journeys

This talks about the journeys I did and the lessons I reflected on

Unburdened by hope

When burdened, always remember this: “Carry your burdens with hope!” – Dr. Wends

 

How many moments in life you think you cannot bear everything that comes up to you and give up, throw out the towel and surrender? There are myriad reasons however, in this life, to carry on with life no matter how burdensome situations, people, events and shortcomings are. We tread with life with much less worries if we try to bring in more hope than worries. When you believe that you can make a better you and an eager you, life will be brilliantly ebullient! It radiates to others who believed in you too. If you are happy with life, so then the people around you will be. Read more »

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Journeys 248: The mundane makes sense

When we think that life must be complicated to make sense, we are wrong. Ordinary lives live by ordinary people are what makes sense in this world made complex by our own innuendoes and our own definition of how one must successfully live one’s life. Sometimes and sadly too, the barometer for a successful life is to get a good paying career, great and rich friends and those that brings us fortune and pride. In a society so constricted to the imposed definition of how living is in the context of success is, we strive to fit in at the utmost prejudice of our own humanity, individuality and our own destiny.

The moment I saw this man patiently waiting for fishes to took on his bait, I saw contentment and humility. Never the assuming kind, this man simply gazes through the sea water below the wharf and patiently waiting for the fishes to take the bait. He does not have a fishing rod, all the amenities that would have made his daily trips to the wharf something of a pride, ease and fulfilment. What he has is his patience, his ordinary life and one that drives him, his hope and dreams.

I did not have the courage to ask for his name and his stature in life but managed to smile at him when he noticed I took photograph of him doing his daily trade wherein, according to fellow fishermen by the wharf, the catch will be their meal by dinnertime. I am humbled at what I saw for I realized that what I have in life pales in comparison when gleaned upon their lives because for what I lacked in patience, they have in abundance, for what I lacked in determination, they have in utmost disposal and for what I lacked in humility, they live by it each day.

This man taught me one virtue that even in the mundane lives we choose to live each day, we make a patient journey towards fulfilment, one that is not measured by money or the wad of cash we keep in our pockets. It is rather measured on our responses to daily challenges of living and genuine service to men and society. In it, as what I saw taught me that even the mundane makes sense as opposed to what we made to appear in a society too myopic on its own self-limiting definition of living and LIFE.

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Analysis 105: May Pasko pa ba?

Scenes of disaster brought about by Sendong is one that evokes raw emotions and painful acceptance that we are no match at the wrath of nature and how expansive its destructive reach over communities that are sound asleep. The most poignant scene I have ever seen was captured by most photos posted on Facebook, tweeted on twitter and those taken by photojournalists and it says one and sole message, strong yet raw – unite with nature otherwise nature unties you.

After having read the news from CNN about the tragic flasfloods that has claimed hundreds of people’s lives, I am reflecting what kind of government do we have. I believed and continue to do so, in fact, exercise my firm belief that government agencies are on the ground on work to no ends to do the search and rescue to retrieval operations, all in the name of public service however I am searching, as many does, of a father who can provide us comfort, direction, hope and strength, in fact, whom we can get our will to survive and live beyond what has happened but sadly, I have not seen him.

This scenario happened already during the flooding in Cotabato City and again, it happened to Cagayan de Oro and Iligan Cities where the President has been apparently absent from the public eye. When the nation is in grief and is grieving, our president was reportedly partying at the palace and had a laugh at jokes cracked by an actress as if his own country has never seen disaster in the eye. When everyone in the cities affected were scampering to safety, searching for families and friends, grieving for dying and the dead, overcoming defeat and finding strength amidst disaster, all he did was merrymaking and partying. Is it not what I was anticipating and expecting from the president most Filipino people put their trust on. What I saw was an uncaring and less determined government who failed to respond to the disaster no matter what and whichever way they could.

May Pasko pa ba? Was asked by a crying girl to her mother distraught by the disaster and I can not imagine how they too will rebuild their lives from the point of view of the child asking the most poignant of all questions. The question was rather innocent and carefree, suited for a child who sees Christmas as a season of hope and fairness but all it is vanished in just hours and their lives altered forever.

 

Must one give in to credence to the kind of inaction this government has in responding to these scenarios in Mindanao? I dare say we must. Government are answerable to the people and should there be instances when we our own lives, properties and nation is threatened, then government, in all its resources and wisdom should rally behind how people can cope up with such tests. In this particular instance, government responded timidly because the President has not even made up his mind to sound the marching orders to rally the people and mustering courage along the way. He failed to reach out to all of us Mindanao whose lives were forever altered because of this. He failed to show us concern, never provided us the opportunity to hope and did not even care to show us the direction where to go. We are never one in this efforts, this is not unity but quandary, never about viability but anarchy and worse, never stability but inability – both in the heart and mind of those whom we place our trust and mandate, to be ever ready to rally to us on our moments of need.

I refuse to believe that what has happened over the weekend and how the President has been absent in our national psyche is a built-attitude but rather one that can be corrected and addressed. As was observed, I am in the firm belief that the President does care enough but we just have not, perhaps felt it sincerely. He may and could have cared to his own definition of the term and estimation from the stand-point of his office and lofty upbringing but one I also could not fathom and will continue to understand.

As a status post I wrote on my Facebook will ever explain my own understanding of events best captured it, I say, “we are all in the concerted efforts here in Mindanao and elsewhere to respond to this disaster save for one person whom this nation has relied solely and perhaps entirely for comfort, direction, assurance and hope – of which he chooses to hide from us, people from Mindanao.” I hope and pray disasters strikes no one and no community in the country to better give us time to heal and perhaps, unite ourselves with how nature live in us and we in them.

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